He came to His own, and those who were His own did not receive Him. But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name, who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.
When you are sealed in Christ, through faith in Christ (Ephesians 1:13), your are transformed in a new birth from the old creature to the new, receiving a new heart and a new spirit. (Ezekiel 36:26; 2nd Corinthians 5:17) However, Calvinism absolutely requires that a person must become preemptively in Christ in order to access what is there, namely, the new heart, so that by that new heart, their decision for Christ may become rendered irresistible, as in Irresistible Grace. However, the problem for Calvinism is that you cannot become sealed in Christ, until after you have first believed in the Gospel. This is made clear by Ephesians 1:13. Therefore, you cannot become preemptively born again, because becoming born again is only available in Christ. You must receive Christ in order to become sealed in Christ, in order to receive the right to new birth in Christ. However, fallen man is spiritually blind. He requires sight to see the Gospel’s light, which the Holy Spirit performs through the Gospel which produces faith. (Romans 10:17)
Calvin comments: “For the evangelist says that no one can believe except he who is born of God. Therefore faith is a heavenly gift. Moreover, faith is not cold and bare knowledge, for no one can believe unless he is born again by the Spirit of God.” (John: The Crossway Classic Commentaries, p.24, emphasis mine)
John Calvin writes: “So faith flows from its source: new birth.” (John: The Crossway Classic Commentaries, p.24, emphasis mine)
Calvin writes: “When the Lord breathes faith in us, he gives us new birth in a hidden and secret way that is unknown to us. But when faith has been given, we grasp with a living awareness not only the grace of adoption but also newness of life and the other gifts of the Holy Spirit.” (John: The Crossway Classic Commentaries, p.24, emphasis mine)
Rather, faith flows from this source: “hearing by the word of Christ” (Romans 10:17), and we are made born again by the imperishable living seed of the Word of God. (1st Peter 1:23)
Therefore, let’s paraphrase this:
However, there’s more. Just like with Ephesians 1:4, Calvinists may read one thing, but see another. Here, they will read “of” God, but see “because.”
One Calvinist explains: “Please notice that the power is given...and it is not given because of mans will.”
Calvin writes: “…a general doctrine can be learned from this verse: we are reckoned the children of God not on account of our own nature, nor from our initiative, but because ‘he chose to give us birth’ (James 1:18), from undeserved love. Hence, it follows, first, that faith is not produced by us but is the fruit of spiritual new birth.” (John: The Crossway Classic Commentaries, p.24, emphasis mine)
Calvinist, John Piper, comments: “In other words, God causes us to be born again with new spiritual life, and the simultaneous effect is that we see and receive Jesus for who he is and trust him with our lives.” (The Free Will of the Wind, emphasis mine)
However, John 1:12-13 specifically says that the right to become the children of God is given because we receive His Son in faith, the benefit of which, is a heavenly birth, hence “of God.” It is the negative portion of the verse which addresses what we are not born of, that the Calvinist uses to infer what we are not born by.
So let’s modify the Calvinistic paraphrase accordingly:
Calvinists take the portion of the passage which speaks of the nature of our new birth, and infer it as the means to come to Christ. The problem is that regeneration is in Christ, and we do not become sealed in Him until after we believe, as per Ephesians 1:13. Thus, Calvinism is out of order.